top of page

Financial Counseling Pre Marriage

Writer: James ChauJames Chau

Updated: Oct 17, 2022

A great article regarding financial questions that couples should ask prior to getting married. Everybody knows that divorce is a unfortunate reality when one enters the union of marriage. According to the news story the average rate of divorce in this country is 45%. Divorce can be one of the most ruinous financial actions a couple can take. The financial consequences can be severe with a hotly contested divorce. The rate drops for people on their first marriage and then for college educated folks with similar religions.

Many people have heard of pre marital counseling to assess the couples compatibility with the realities of a marriage. Not many people have heard of pre marital financial counseling. The story recommends couples discuss several talks prior to getting married. 1) The parties are asked to discuss their parents financial ancestry. What type of financial habits did their parents have and what did their learn about money growing up. 2) What type of credit score they have, which is a reflection of their current financial health. Do they make late payments, do they over spend. Will this impact their ability to purchase a house in the future 3) Which party will take control of the household finances. It is not difficult if one person takes over and the other acquiesces, but if there is a power struggle from two people who are so used to handling their financial matters, it will bound to bring up conflict. 4) Finally, affluence, what type of affluence is the party hoping to achieve. If one party wants to be a multi millionaire and retire before 40 and the other is happy in a quiet middle class living, there will be conflict.

If you are unlucky to find yourself in a divorce please contact my Campbell San Jose Divorce Lawyer office. I serve Santa Clara County Family Law and the surrounding bay area.

Recent Posts

See All

Father's Rights and Lesbian Partners

The new world issue of alternative families and the intersection of the old family code is causing some changes to the law. I read this...

コメント


2114 Senter Road, Suite 2

San Jose, California 95112

Office - 408-899-8364

10080 N Wolfe Road Suite SW3-200

Cupertino, CA 95014*

* By Appointment Only

Website Created and Maintained by Boxer Media Services Corp.

©2025 The Law Offices of James Chau, P.C.

bottom of page