Family Law Blog

Many people say they want an “amicable” divorce. It’s one of the most common phrases couples use when discussing separation, and one of the most misunderstood. Amicable does not mean easy. It does not mean painless. And it does not mean avoiding difficult conversations. In California, an amicable divorce is best understood as a process that is intentional, structured, and informed. Conflict does not disappear; it is managed to prevent it from taking over the entire process. U

February often carries mixed messages about love. Valentine’s Day highlights romance, commitment, and togetherness, but for many people, it also brings quiet tension. You may still care deeply about your partner while sensing, more clearly than before, that the relationship no longer works in the way it once did. Holding both of those truths at the same time can feel heavy. Caring about someone does not automatically mean a relationship is healthy or sustainable. Love and com

You made it through the holidays. You did your best to hold things together, to keep the peace, to get through a season that asks a lot emotionally. Now the decorations are coming down, routines are returning, and you’re left with the same questions you had before. For many people, the holidays become a kind of emotional pause. Couples decide to wait. Conversations get postponed. Difficult truths are set aside in favor of making it through one more gathering, one more family

One of the most unsettling parts of thinking about separation is the uncertainty. Many people imagine that everything will change at once—daily routines, finances, relationships, even their sense of self. That fear of the unknown can feel more unsettling than the separation itself. In reality, some things do change when you separate. Others stay familiar. Understanding the difference can reduce anxiety and help you see what separation actually means, especially within Califor

The first holiday season after a divorce or separation can feel unfamiliar in ways you never expected. Traditions shift. Routines change. Even simple moments can catch you off guard. It’s completely normal to feel sadness, relief, confusion, hope—sometimes all within the same afternoon. Give yourself permission to feel what you feel. There is no “right way” to move through this. Give Yourself Permission to Redefine the Holidays Holidays do not have to look the way they once d

The first holiday season after a divorce or separation can feel tender in ways that catch you off guard. Even when you’re doing your best to move forward, extended family can unintentionally stir up emotions you weren’t prepared for. Questions, assumptions, invitations, expectations—it’s a lot. And none of it means you’re doing anything wrong. It simply means you’re human. You Don’t Owe Anyone an Explanation Most family members mean well, but their curiosity can land in the m

The holidays promise joy, family, and warmth—but for many couples, they also bring stress, financial tension, and emotional strain. When the lights dim and the decorations come down, unresolved issues that were pushed aside often resurface. Across California and beyond, family law attorneys often notice an increase in divorce consultations as the new year begins. For some, the holidays highlight how distant things have become. For others, they confirm what they already feared

Divorce changes more than your relationship status — it changes your sense of security. When emotions run high during a divorce , financial clarity can bring a sense of peace of mind. Many people feel torn between protecting what’s theirs and worrying that it seems selfish. In truth, keeping your separate property separate isn’t about mistrust—it’s about fairness, foresight, and following California law. Protecting your assets doesn’t mean you love or trust your spouse any le

Being served with divorce papers can feel overwhelming, even if you sensed the marriage was heading in that direction. Many people...

Divorce can be one of the most stressful experiences in life, but how the process unfolds often depends on the path chosen— mediation  or...

In California, establishing legal paternity is more than just paperwork—it’s a foundational step in securing the legal, emotional, and...

Divorce may be the most common way to end a marriage, but it’s not the only legal path. In California, legal separation  provides an...

As technology evolves, so do the types of property couples accumulate during a marriage. Today, digital assets  can carry just as much...

California has some of the most inclusive and progressive family laws in the country, but LGBTQ+ parents still face unique legal...

Co-parenting is challenging even in the best of circumstances. When your ex refuses to pay court-ordered child support, it can strain...

Co-parenting after a divorce or separation can feel overwhelming. Emotions run high, routines shift, and communication may already be...

When a teenager says they want to live with one parent over the other, it often leads to stress, disagreement, and confusion. Many...

When a parent stops making child support payments, it can quickly become a serious problem. Missed support can make it harder to cover...

If you or your child are in immediate danger, call 911. Family dynamics can shift in an instant—one parent relocates without warning, a...

Family law cases often involve some of the most personal and emotionally charged issues people face— divorce , child custody , child...