A vocational evaluation can determine how much a California court believes you are capable of earning. Here is what the examination involves and how it affects spousal support.

A tech layoff, RSU cliff, or career change can affect spousal support. Learn how California courts evaluate modification requests.

California domestic partnerships and marriage are closer in legal substance than most people realize. Under state law, registered domestic partners have nearly all the same rights and obligations as married spouses. What most people miss is where the differences are, and those differences can be significant depending on the couple’s circumstances. Since 2020, domestic partnerships in California have been available to any two adults, not just same-sex couples. The question of

For most people going through a divorce, the legal process is complicated enough on its own. For non-citizens whose immigration status is tied to their marriage, a divorce that is straightforward under California family law can trigger consequences in federal immigration law that take years to unwind. The intersection of California family law and federal immigration law is genuinely complex. Talking to both a family law attorney and an immigration attorney, ideally before fil

For many families in the Bay Area, traveling internationally is not a luxury. It is how children stay connected to grandparents, extended family, and the cultures they come from. A trip to India, Mexico, Vietnam, the Philippines, China, or anywhere else a family has roots is part of ordinary life for a large portion of Santa Clara County families. When parents share custody, though, that trip requires more than a passport and a plane ticket. California law has specific requir

Most people who ask about annulment are not really asking about annulment. They are asking whether California law provides a way to undo a marriage that ended almost as quickly as it began, or one that turned out to be built on deception. The answer is sometimes yes, but the legal standard is narrower than most people expect, and the confusion leads people to pursue the wrong process or miss filing deadlines that cannot be recovered. California law allows annulments only in l

In Silicon Valley, stock options and Restricted Stock Units (RSUs) are often worth far more than a traditional bonus. For many employees, they represent a significant portion of long-term wealth. When divorce enters the picture, determining how those assets should be divided can become one of the most financially important issues in the case. Unlike a checking account with a fixed balance, equity compensation often comes with vesting schedules, continued employment requiremen

Divorce after age 50, commonly called gray divorce, brings a different set of concerns than divorce earlier in life. The assets may be larger, but the time to recover from a poor settlement is usually shorter. A decision about a pension, the family home, or spousal support may shape retirement for both spouses. In a California gray divorce, the legal rules matter, but so does the practical question underneath them: what will each person actually live on when the divorce is ov

Owning a business when a marriage ends complicates nearly every part of the divorce. The business has to be classified, valued, and divided, and the practical question becomes what happens to it after the divorce. Each of those steps carries financial and practical consequences that extend well beyond the divorce itself. Business division in divorce gets expensive when the details are handled late or handled poorly. Small valuation decisions can shift the outcome substantiall

Most people going through a divorce are focused on what they are going to keep. The house, the retirement accounts, the savings. Debt tends to get less attention until it becomes the most consequential issue left on the table. California’s community property rules apply to debt the same way they apply to assets. What you owe is divided along with what you own, and mistakes made during that division can cost you for years after the divorce is final. There is also a real differ

There is no version of this conversation that goes smoothly. Children do not receive this news the way adults imagine they will, and there is nothing you can say that makes it painless. What changes, though, is how children come through it. That depends less on what you say in the moment than on how both parents conduct themselves in the months that follow. This is not a legal question, but it carries legal weight. How you handle this, and how you behave in front of your chil

Some parents enter this process genuinely wanting to do right by their children, but just cannot agree on what that looks like. Others are dealing with a co-parent who is actively making things harder: interfering with time, speaking against them to the children, or using the kids as leverage. Courts regularly see both situations, and California law has specific provisions regarding each. Understanding what the court actually expects, and what it does when those expectations

For many people, their retirement account is their largest financial asset. It is also, in my experience, one of the most frequently mishandled assets in a divorce, because the rules are more technical than people expect and the cost of getting them wrong tends to be permanent. Whether you have a 401(k), an IRA, a pension, or a public employee plan like CalPERS, the mechanics of dividing it are different in each case. Here is what you need to understand before those decisions

People come into a consultation expecting spousal support to work like a formula. Plug in the numbers, get an answer. California law does not work that way. The amount, the duration, and whether it can be modified later all require a court to weigh a specific set of factors against the circumstances of that particular marriage. Two cases with similar incomes can produce very different outcomes. Here is how the law actually works, what the ten-year mark means, and what kinds o

For most couples, the house is the biggest thing they own. It’s also, almost always, the hardest thing to figure out in a divorce. Part of that is financial. In the Bay Area, especially, a home can represent decades of equity, and what happens to it has real consequences for both people’s lives after the divorce. But part of it is something harder to name. The house is where you live. It might be where your kids grew up. Deciding what to do with it means deciding something ab

You filed the papers. You did the thing you’d been turning over in your mind for months, maybe longer. And now you’re sitting with this strange feeling that nothing is happening. No judge showed up. No resolution arrived. Your spouse may not have even responded yet. Life looks mostly the same from the outside, and yet everything has changed. This is the part nobody warns you about. The first 90 days after filing for divorce in California are quieter than people expect, and mo

Many people say they want an “amicable” divorce. It’s one of the most common phrases couples use when discussing separation, and one of the most misunderstood. Amicable does not mean easy. It does not mean painless. And it does not mean avoiding difficult conversations. In California, an amicable divorce is best understood as a process that is intentional, structured, and informed. Conflict does not disappear; it is managed to prevent it from taking over the entire process. U

February often carries mixed messages about love. Valentine’s Day highlights romance, commitment, and togetherness, but for many people, it also brings quiet tension. You may still care deeply about your partner while sensing, more clearly than before, that the relationship no longer works in the way it once did. Holding both of those truths at the same time can feel heavy. Caring about someone does not automatically mean a relationship is healthy or sustainable. Love and com

You made it through the holidays. You did your best to hold things together, to keep the peace, to get through a season that asks a lot emotionally. Now the decorations are coming down, routines are returning, and you’re left with the same questions you had before. For many people, the holidays become a kind of emotional pause. Couples decide to wait. Conversations get postponed. Difficult truths are set aside in favor of making it through one more gathering, one more family

One of the most unsettling parts of thinking about separation is the uncertainty. Many people imagine that everything will change at once—daily routines, finances, relationships, even their sense of self. That fear of the unknown can feel more unsettling than the separation itself. In reality, some things do change when you separate. Others stay familiar. Understanding the difference can reduce anxiety and help you see what separation actually means, especially within Califor