Family Law Blog

The first holiday season after a divorce or separation can feel unfamiliar in ways you never expected. Traditions shift. Routines change. Even simple moments can catch you off guard. It’s completely normal to feel sadness, relief, confusion, hope—sometimes all within the same afternoon. Give yourself permission to feel what you feel. There is no “right way” to move through this. Give Yourself Permission to Redefine the Holidays Holidays do not have to look the way they once d

The first holiday season after a divorce or separation can feel tender in ways that catch you off guard. Even when you’re doing your best to move forward, extended family can unintentionally stir up emotions you weren’t prepared for. Questions, assumptions, invitations, expectations—it’s a lot. And none of it means you’re doing anything wrong. It simply means you’re human. You Don’t Owe Anyone an Explanation Most family members mean well, but their curiosity can land in the m

The holidays promise joy, family, and warmth—but for many couples, they also bring stress, financial tension, and emotional strain. When the lights dim and the decorations come down, unresolved issues that were pushed aside often resurface. Across California and beyond, family law attorneys often notice an increase in divorce consultations as the new year begins. For some, the holidays highlight how distant things have become. For others, they confirm what they already feared

Divorce changes more than your relationship status — it changes your sense of security. When emotions run high during a divorce , financial clarity can bring a sense of peace of mind. Many people feel torn between protecting what’s theirs and worrying that it seems selfish. In truth, keeping your separate property separate isn’t about mistrust—it’s about fairness, foresight, and following California law. Protecting your assets doesn’t mean you love or trust your spouse any le